Cebuanas

The greatest time of the my life happened with a Cebuana. 

 We met online.  I know its stupid and cliché but it really did feel like “love that first  sight”.  We were attracted to each other...  REALLY attracted to each other and could not stop smiling as we saw each other on the web cam for the first time.  Then something amazing happened.  We just kept talking and talking and talking.  Even though were were worlds apart, from different generations and different cultures, we had a lot in common as far as life views and philosophy.  We were interested in each other not only physically, but interested in what each other had to say.  It was an amazing connection that kept getting stronger and stronger. 

We decided to get more serious talking about meeting each other and what it would take to be together.  She wanted me to get more serious.  I was reluctant because I had just gotten out of a relationship with a girl that was too much like this Cebuana. 

When I did take her on and decide to try, she stared talking to her ex-boyfriend.  I thought it was harmless, but then she started talking to him regularly and very quickly I realized that she was still very much into him.

He begged for her to come back and she accepted.  As mature as she was, I felt maybe she was too young for the serious and committed kind of relationship I was looking for.  We broke up and found other people.  She became engaged with her ex and I hooked up with an friend of mine.

Five months later our relationships had failed and we were talking again.  We were talking about our failed relationships.  Her relationship with her ex that turn out to be and Ex for a very good reason.  And I had gotten my self mixed up with a very crazy new Filipina that got pregnant with another man’s baby.  We were very sad that we had stopped talking and started planning to meet up again. 

Two or so months later, we met in Cebu City.  The connection we made there was amazing.  I can honestly say I have never felt a connection like that and its really hard to describe.  We could talk all night and all day without even noticing that the TV was off the entire week.  There was no entertainment greater than laughing and smiling and making love with each other constantly.  It does not have anything to do with the fact that she is Cebuana, but its definitely a plus.

My Impression of Philippine Girls

Philippine Girls

I went to visit my ex-girlfriend in the Philippines in 2012.  She was a very hot little Cebuana had me into her the from the first time we met.  But it was a long distance relationship and she was in limbo.  We had broken up 6 month prior and gone our own separate ways and now I was on my way to meet her.  

Truthfully, we almost cannot say we were ever together in 2011, since we met online and only start talking serious for about a few months.  We parted ways in 2011 and she immediately got engaged and planned on starting a family.  I had hooked up with the craziest  Filipina  women I had ever met.  She was from Mindanao. 

By 2012, me ex-cebuana and I were talking again.  She broke off her relationship with her fiance and I broke up with my crazy-mindanao girlfriend.  

Before my 2012 Philippine vacation I had gotten offers from several girls who wanted to meet me.  Since I am black, I am surprised that I had so many offers since most Filipinas are not into black.  But all the ones that I had met were exceptions to the rule.  There were 5 Filipinas:   there were two mature, 30+ Filipinas wanting something serious.  There was one very cool friend who I was supposed to meet to potentially start a local store with.  Her and I had know each other for over a year online and were anxious to finally meet.. though I admit she wanted more than just friendship.  Then there was my super crazy ex Mindanao girlfriend.. ok, yes.. not a good idea to meet her (IN MINDANAO) and lastly there was the Ex Cebuana girlfriend that I had really loved.

I ended up going to meet both exes.  The reason was that I really wanted to have a serious relationship.  Really, it was not just for sex.  What I found out on the trip is that the crazy ex-Mindanao gf had been scamming me.  I found out that she had been with several guys while she was with me and one of them had actually gotten her pregnant.  She also had a Filipino guy very close to where she lived there in Magsaysay.  She was playing a bunch of guys all at once to get everything she needed from them (money, comfort, support, sex, etc).  She lived in the province partly in the jungle.  Water came out of a pump and electricity was not reliable.  While I was there she paraded me around like I was a trophy.  But after all I learned, I realized breaking up had been a great idea.  While in Mindanao, I had been in a den of snakes.

The Cebuana ex, gave me an experience that was something I cannot even describe.  She cared for me.  I felt like a king and had never felt so welcomed and loved than with her.  At the time I felt like Cebu City might be my new home, but you know it was not really Cebu, it was her.. being with her felt like home.  We were like soulmates (for lack of a better word).  We went to Boracay went all over Cebu and just enjoyed each others company.  That week I learned just how good life could be.  I did not realize that it could feel that good and that fulfilling to be with someone.  We had an amazing time and it was like something you only see in movies. 

All these women of the Philippines faced many of the same problems, but handled them very differently.  All of them face financial difficulties on their OWN.  They had all had Filipino ex-boyfriends, ex-fiances, exhusbands but all had been abandoned by them.  Most had at least one child.  And ALL were expected to take care of their entire family.. not only their own kids but their parents, brothers and sisters and sometimes even aunts and uncles. 

My crazy Mindanao-ex handle this burden by running as many scams as she could.  The mature Filipinas handled it by becoming a wife to as good a man as they could find and staying with him as long as they could stand it.  My impression of Filipino women is that they are strong because they are forced to be.  They must do it on their own mostly because they are left to fend for themselves.  Its made them resourceful survivors and in most cases completely devoted wives.  Though I had many bad experiences, over all I have a positive impression of amazing women with a hunger for love in an impoverished developing situation.  I think this is their decade to rise up and earn success all over the world.

Philippine Wife

Philippine Wife

Man, I am fed up with American women!  Really, its the younger generation.  Relationship-wise
they don't have any marketable skills and they are lazy.  Or maybe its generation-x, my generation.

They are lazy, they cannot cook and refuse to clean.  I mean if you are homemaker, make the goddamn home!  They are very spoiled like children.  They expect everything from a man but don't contribute anything.  They are selfish and materialistic.

I am done with American women.  Especially, after seeing wives from other countries.  So far all my co-workers who have married Ethiopian women, Arab women, Japanese women don't have the kind of ridiculous problems that I have had with my American wife.

The most impressive that I have seen has been filipina wives.  For a good man, she is incredible and make it so he never has to want for anything outside the relationship.  She serves her man, cares for his every need.  She can usually cook very good.  Call me old fashioned but when a woman can cook HOLY SHIT that is big deal.

So I started courting a filipina not only to play around but to "wife her".  It was not easy to find a good one, I won't lie.  Most that I met already have a man and just wanted me for my money.  I met literally 20-30 scammer artists, online beggars, and desperate ladies looking to "borrow" money rather than start a real relationship.  The filipino dating scene is maggoty with ladies looking for a hand out from
a dumb foreigner.

I was discouraged after meeting so many of these impoverished women.  But when I finally met the good girls, they were very serious, very sweet and willing to do anything to show me just how real they were.

I narrowed the list down to about three and ended actually meeting two.  One turned out to be an insane lunatic that told me she was having my baby..

It was NOT mine according the DNA evidence.  The other has been absolutely better than what I thought possible.

She is like a super woman.  She is brilliant, hardworking independent and mature.  She has a degree and a job. She supports everything I do and is interested in my life.  She is willing to put into the relationship more than what she gets out of it investing time, trust and love into something she is willing to work toward building rather than looking for a man that is supposed to give EVERYTHING and get what is left from the remains of the relationship.

This filipina is definitely wife material.

pride for pinay bride

I was married 17 years.  I am about to marry again but this time for good.  In the first marriage we
really grew apart over the years and there were two many things we were not willing to compromise.

I am really not wanting a wedding with my filipino bride.  I believe marriage is in the heart, not on
a piece of paper.  The marriage certificate is a legally binding document that is used for taxes and for
recognition by the government.  It gives special privileges as a married couple that you can
take advantage of.  For me that ACTUAL marriage (the commitment, trust, loyalty) is built in the heart.
And its forged over time through work.  I was willing to do that work with my first wife, but she was not.

Marriage is definitely for me.  How do I know?  I actually am good at commitment and I am not into
constant hunting.  I am into building and investing into what I have.  This time I want to do it with someone that can give back as much as I am willing to put in. So I am looking for a filipina.

As I said, I don't want a marriage because I feel its very personal and between only me and my filipino wife.  But, all that said, if my filipina bride wants a wedding, we will have one.

with coconut oil, pull the hair

I am obsessed with long black filipina hair.  My fiance just got her hair curly and it looks very nice.
I love it.  I have been wondering how filipinas always have that long amazing hair.  I mean, I know its
genetics but is there anything else?

Recently, my fiance told me that she used coconut oil in her hair.  I assumed she meant some sort of cream conditioner that is extracted from coconut milk.  But know.. she means actual coconut milk.
She puts it in her hair.  I got curious and looked it up and apparently its got all kinds
of vitamins in it.  Like B1, B6, E and lots of other stuff thats good for you.

I guess that is one of the secrets.  She does something to the coconut milk to get the coconut oil out of it and then applies it to her hair.

whatever she is doing it looks great!  And I have fun pulling it hard when I am fucking her
from behind.  She really loves that.  Its one of the main reasons that she keeps it long for me.

sex with sexy pinay

LBFM - Little brown fuck machines.  That is what they call filipinas because they are like
animals in bed.  They really get into the sex.  They are both submissive and aggressive..
aggressively submissive and love to take all of it.  Whether on top or doggy-style they get really
into it.

I notice that many of the so called asian porn stars are actually filipinas.  If you think
I am wrong, check it out the next time you check out asian porn.

Sexy pinay are usually petite, so that is why is very surprising that they are so good.  You
would thing that a filipina who is 4'11 cannot take if rough.  But if you think that, you are
so wrong.

I have met some filipinas who are saving their virginity for their husbands.  Very traditional
Catholic girls.  But most that I have met are hyper-sexual and will fuck a guy at the drop
of a hat.  These girls have two or three guys (a husband, a boyfriend and other).

I have had black, white and Japanese and the best by far were filipinas not only in willingness
to try new things but in both aggressiveness and submissiveness.  Philippines girls are pretty
wild.  The really wild one have been with MANY guys from all over the world.  They have international
pussy that is for sure.

filipina mail order wives?

I don't know that I would try a filipino mail order bride and I wonder why anyone else would.
I love filipinas but most pinay I have met are not faithful to foreigners.  They tend to use
us for fun rather than for something serious.  I mean, not all but many talk very openly to me
about how many foreigners they have had and their adventures with each.

I would not get a filipino mail order bride because I need to get to know they pinay before
I would be willing to make such a big step in commitment.  My personal feeling is that you really
cannot know who a person is or your own actual feelings toward them until you live with them.

It really takes time to get to know what someone is all about.  So you don't have really enough
time to do that with a filipino mail order bride.  You only have time for a few conversations, doing the paper work and then meeting.  So you really don't know what you have gotten yourself into until its
too late.

I know of a few cases where the mail order bride comes to the US then goes off on her own
once you has a legal right to be within the country.  She marries some elderly guy or military guy.
Then gets a job in the US and moves away from the guy to live her own life.

I don't really know the situation or what kind of arrangement that the couple has.  Anyway,
the case I heard about was some young Thai girls.

I used online dating to find my filipina fiance and we have actually been talking and meeting for two years.  We have lived with each other for a while, gotten in arguments and been very open about what
we like and don't like.  There is still a ways to go but we will get there.